✔ Have you tried everything to make your child do as you say! You’ve even tried grounding, timeouts, bribing, and threats to get your kid to behave, but nothing works?
✔ It feels like a never-ending struggle, and you reached your breaking point!
✔ Are you sick and tired of being sick and tired of feeling like you always give up your work-out time or you girls time to do the housework or run the kids to their next activity?
✔ You have made schedules and tried waking up an hour before everyone else, only to lose your beauty sleep and watch the schedule fly out the window.
✔ Does your feeling and vision of what your family life would look like not correspond with your reality of today?
✔ Maybe you just need a more personal and private deep dive to see how you can get past these frustrations and struggles you just can’t seem to solve!
✔ Look, the things you have tried, just aren’t working, you’re not sure what to do next and you are NOT alone!
You’re NOT a bad parent!
A 90 Minute Intense Problem Solving Session is a way to talk about the more challenging, more sensitive, more intense specifics of any parenting situation you are working through.
No one handed you a manual when you had your cute little newborn. Parenthood is a life-changing journey. You don’t have to have all the answers or do it alone!
We will reflect in a non-judgemental setting, working on mindset and awareness, set values, beliefs, and look at patterns from your past. We will get a clearer and more balanced connection for you in your home, life and with your child, and figure out how to build on your relationship to start you on your way to a successful bad ass parenting life!
About Me…
I am a proud wife of a marine veteran, and 25 year LEOW, a full time working Badass Boss Mom of 5 amazing kiddos, self employed for the better part of 24 years. The desire to be 100% present in my kids lives started before I even had my first child. I quit my job and opened my first business at the age of 27, and had my first child at 30. I thought I had it all figured out! WRONG!
It seems like just yesterday I was sitting alone in my car after school drop off, just balling my eyes out. I was so overwhelmed and at rock bottom as a Mom.
I had planned ahead for everything, so I thought, and somehow I seemed to begin each day with my 12 year old head strong daughter, fighting with me. I had survived twins born at 28 weeks gestation and on oxygen and heart monitors and needing lots of therapy and medical intervention for several years! All while caring for a 3- , 5- year old and 7-year old at the same time, doing the day to day laundry for 7 and cooking, and cleaning AND I worked for myself from home. Had to find my own clients, had to make sure the work got done for them! The medical bills from the twins almost cost us our home! We had lived through the “Summer of Bologna Sandwiches” for goodness sakes, and yet, I was sitting there completely at a loss as a mom, on how to stop fighting with my pre-teen daughter! Daily!
You see, I was the classic authoritarian parent. I had always been taught, that as a parent, you tell your child what to do and they behave or get punished. Yet, my strong willed (just like her mom) daughter, ignored me, or rolled her eyes or worse yet, she argued with me, and ultimately, I lost my temper back! I didn’t know how to ask for what I needed, so I barked orders instead! Then her brother started to copy her! I tried to punished and raise my voice and lost my shit over and over again! I was destroying any relationship with my kids, and they weren’t even teenagers yet! To say I was a stressed out hot mess of a mama, would be, being nice.
It was a LOT.
Fast forward to today; I have built the most incredible relationship with our now, 5 teenagers! My 2 oldest kids, including my ASD son are successfully navigating college on their own, and we still talk almost daily! Not only have I learned the best way to raise them to be fully prepared to be on their own, but, they are making incredible strides as young adults! I am the most elated and content I have ever been as a mom! I have a very respectful and trustful relationship with all of my kids, including the teenagers still living at home. I don’t have the stress and frustration anymore, AND I make sure myself care needs are met too! Today, we are all HAPPY and CONNECTED.
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